Monday, April 10, 2006

Gothamist


New York is a city that I love and hate to equal degrees.

I'd like to steal this quote from Jimmy Breslin because it's the truest thing I've ever heard. Truer than God or "My name is ____" or gravity.

I knew it early on, after having lived here for only a few years, and I know it now, after nearly eight. For every thing I love about New York (the architecture), there is something I hate ($). For every thing I hate about New York (MTA motherfuckers), there is something I love (the amazing, amazing food).

But this isn't a post about the things I hate about New York. This is a post about:

Bridges.

I’ve been over most of them. I’m particularly well-acquainted with the Queensborough Bridge. During the transit strike last December, I walked over it to work and it was a rather peaceful, meditative way to start the day. During the blackout in 2003, I walked down 43 flights of stairs with a co-worker. He lived in Long Island, so we walked over the bridge together. I was sad I didn’t have my camera, but more than that, I was thankful that I had worn decent walking shoes that day.

I love the Verazzano-Narrows. I think it is beautiful, even if it is connected to Staten Island.

I’ve walked over the Brooklyn Bridge with a birthday cake at dusk. And discovered it’s actually kind of hard to get off because the ramp goes on for a long, long way and suddenly you are nowhere near Grimaldi’s anymore.

Snowman had swatted at a birthday piƱata underneath the Williamsburg Bridge. I made it for him and filled it up with candy and lotto tickets.

I’ve taken the George Washington on my way to and from the Berkshires.

When I take a cab home and it’s nighttime and we’re cruising on the top level of the Queensborough, I always take a look over my shoulder at the city all lit up, speeding away from me. That’s my city. A co-op city where everyone owns a little piece. I’m always a little bit awed. I can never quite believe it. Is this how Dorothy felt when she saw the Emerald City? Anything could happen in a city like that.

I lean back in the taxi and smile to myself. Suddenly, I can’t wait for tomorrow.

'Cause everyone's your friend in New York City
And everything looks beautiful when you're young and pretty
The streets are paved with diamonds and there's just so much to see...

-They Might Be Giants

13 comments:

VE said...

I share in your love/hate.
I think the Brooklyn Bridge is my favorite. I would have that same feeling of awe upon cabbing home late at night, crossing the river, The Statue lit up to the right, the giants behind me, Brooklyn ahead.
What's your favorite bridge in the world?

TinselTeeth said...

That's a beautiful post--especially about carrying a birthday cake across the Brooklyn Bridge! Driving across a bridge sometimes makes me feel like I'm in a movie, especially when the music is right.

MXF said...

It's hard to beat the Brooklyn Bridge for favorites. It's mythical, like riding a dragon.

TT, that was your birthday cake I was carrying! It was 9/11/2003. We shared cake with strangers. You got feathered underwear. I took that opening picture that night. What a strange, lovely night it was though.

Anonymous said...

Indeed, such a beautiful post.

After living here for eight years, I love it much more than I hate it. I haven't lost my awe or wonder one bit, even though I feel I have claimed my piece of the coop at this point. This city still surprises and entrances me, and I hope it is always that way.

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VE said...

Dude, you totally got spammed just now.

MXF said...

Ha ha, barton, I deleted the spam. Now your comment makes no sense at all!

EM said...

Great post, 'chellephant.

I'll put in my NY 2 cents ($2.25) after 5 years here, I hate much more than I love.

But the few things I do love, like the Brooklyn Bridge, I love much more deeply than the way I feel about the many things that I hate.

Anonymous said...

I'm ready to move back to the suburbs... but I'll always want to visit ;)

MXF said...

Ed, your comment is right on. I probably hate more than I love too, but what I love, I love very much. Damn, where would we all be without the Brooklyn Bridge?

Shannon, if you're ready to move, what's holding you back? I'm sure your dog would appreciate a backyard!

Anonymous said...

well, we both work in manhattan and as expensive as our apt. is, we can't really get anything better for the money right now. So until we're ready to buy a house, it just doens't make sense to move yet.

Anonymous said...

I love that song. It's about what I love in this city. We also played it at our wedding, so I'm partial.

I also love this entry because you perfectly expressed what I love about this city... the magic and the possibility of this place.

And the Brooklyn Bridge kicks the ass of every other bridge ever.

Anonymous said...

The Brooklyn Bridge is my favourite landmark, period, end stop, etc.